Thursday, April 17, 2008

Passover

Ah its that time of year again you know what I'm talking about. The bland food, the cracker crumbs. Passover is here.
So far my Passover has been pretty good. For the first Seder we went to the Rabbi's house. In all there were about twenty people at the Seder and we knew them all for the most part. I really enjoyed the Seder, it was entertaining (yes a Seder I didn't fall a sleep during) funny and meaningful all in one. The Hagada the Rabbi used this year was called "A Different Night" I forgot who wrote it but whom ever he is he got tired of the stereo typical boring Seder and made a new Seder for the A.D.D. in all of us. Anyway everyone had a great time and I really felt like a part of the community.
We have been volunteering as much as we can at the Shul, and right before Passover there's a whole lot to do. So we've been kind of getting in the community a little more which is nice. The people at Shul seem to be excepting us, some even want me to go out with their daughters but we wont go into details.
Yep conversion time is just around the corner and it feels like crunch time, I'm not worrying about the needle or about taking a bath in front of a witness. I am worrying about the Beit Din, I think I will be okay about the heart questions but if they ask any factual questions, I will either freeze up or not know the answer. Mom keeps telling me its not a test its just a inquiry to see if I really want to convert for the right reasons. I know I shouldn't worry but what can you do?
I really hope people don't think that I am converting because of my parents. I am doing this for me I have always wanted to convert and I have always loved Judaism, this is my decision. I am not really an excitable person and I don't openly show my emotions so I don't want it to look like I am going through this like a robot I am extremely exited and I have never wanted something so bad.
I hope everyone enjoys their season of flavorless crackers that spread crumbs all over the house and dry out your mouth. Hag Samayoch.
Peace out.
Ian Cauthen
P.S. did anyone else forget to count the Omer on the second night? My bad.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Prolly the first sedar I didn't fall asleep during was Chabad's. :) I dislike matza, and haven't even bought any this year.
I'm very happy for you, sad for me, but happy for you. Ironic.... Anyway, don't be too nervous. You are going to do WONDERFUL! Your heart wants this, and you'll get it.
Be careful of the chicks with matchmaking parents. lol Matchmaking is bad all around, for several different reasons. It messes up the natural order, even if something was meant to be matchmaking can interfering by pushing it, or it can put you with the wrong person altogether. lol
I don't know about everyone else, but I know you can think for yourself and I know why you are doing this. For you, not your parents or anyone else.
Love and miss you old friend.

Anonymous said...

I agree with Marli on the Matchmaking. You'll know when the right girl comes around. Just ask Willy. I too enjoyed the different Hagadah, it was captivating and moving.
You'll do very well, my love, in the Beit Din, trust yo mama.

Anonymous said...

Ian, I am so glad to hear your enthusiasm for your conversion. I never thought you were doing because your parents were. Each of you can and should make up your own minds. That totally extends to your siblings decision not to convert at this time.

How wonderful to become part of such a beautiful covenant. Mazel Tov